What Men Want Sexually ???

December 1, 2009

Exactly what men want sexually is a mystery to women. You might be under the impression men just want sex, but there are specific parts men crave. If you're unsure of his sexual desires, fear no more: The following is a fool-proof list of what men want sexually.



Foreplay
1. Men want foreplay too; it just might be a different than what women want. Men are very visual creatures, so getting a good look at your naked body can constitute foreplay for him. If you're having sex, then he has obviously seen you naked, but allowing him to really study your body is different than getting a quick glance before sex. On top the visual, he will be turned on by your confidence. Keep the lights on and strip off your clothes, slowly and sensually. Run your hands along your body as you do, and have enough distance between the two of you so he can look but can't touch yet. According to Cosmopolitan.com, a sexy image causes a man's testosterone levels to rise, which increases his sex drive, and the longer he looks, the more turned on he will get.
Sex
2. One of the main turn-ons for a man is being able to pleasure you. No matter how good he might be in bed, he has no way of knowing what pleases you and what doesn't if you don't send him signals. Don't start screaming at him to do something different. Make sure it's clear when something feels good. When he is doing something you like, you can let him know by telling him to keep going or how much you love it when he does whatever he's doing. If you don't, then just remind him of another action that you do like. Tell him, "It feels so good when you ..." and finish the sentence with whatever it is you'd like him to do.

You will be surprised at how much it turns him on when you initiate sex instead of waiting for him, particularly if you do it spontaneously. A man often wants to dominate during sex, but sometimes he wants you to take charge. Instead of lying down on the bed and waiting for him to take the lead, push him on the bed and climb on top. Show him you know what you're doing and how to turn him on. And if you're on top, you can lean over him so your breasts are right in his face, and that's a perfect view.
After Sex
3. Because men often worry about their performance, it's a great idea to tell him how great the sex was for you. Even if he doesn't like to cuddle and talk after sex, he will appreciate the ego stroke. Try to be specific and tell him what turned you on the most, because that also gives him pointers for next time.